Vivien Jaros-Calleja. Age 63. February 20,1961 - September 8, 2024

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Vivien Jaros-Calleja, a beloved daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and dear friend, on September 8, 2024. She left this world peacefully, surrounded by love and her family.

Vivien was born on February 20, 1961, in Manhattan, New York, the daughter of Edwin and Josephine Ellul. She was raised with strong values of compassion, kindness, and unwavering love, which she carried throughout her life. Her heart was always open to those around her, and she touched the lives of so many with her generosity, laughter, and wisdom.

Vivien was a loving wife to John Calleja sharing 13 years of marriage filled with love, laughter, and countless cherished memories. She is also survived by Kevin Jaros, her first husband and father of their beloved children. The strong bond they shared will forever be reflected in the lives of their children.

Vivien was the cherished mother of Jessica (Scott) Matthews and Nicole (Dan) Hilla, and her love for them knew no bounds. She nurtured, supported, and guided them with patience and grace, always providing a listening ear and a warm hug when it was needed most. Vivien is reunited in peace with her beloved son, Alex Jaros. Her children will forever hold her in their hearts as their guiding light.

Her love extended beyond her own children, as she was also a beloved stepmother to Tony (Stacey) Calleja, Tomika Martinez, Sarah (James) Peterson and Angela (Mark) Maybee, who she embraced as her own. Her stepchildren, though adults when she entered their lives, will always remember her as a kind and caring presence who touched them deeply.

She was a proud Nanna to Blake and Olivia, as well as a loving step-Nanna to Jazminn, Santi, Jahvon, Sofia, Kaylynn, Nathan and Anna.They all brought her immense joy and pride. Her grandchildren and grand doggies will forever cherish the memories of her warm smile, playful spirit, and the countless stories she shared with them.

Vivien leaves behind her sister, Lilly Flask, who was predeceased by her husband, Sam, as well as their sister, Cathy Agius, and Cathy's husband, Sonny. She is also survived by her loving nieces and nephews, all of whom cherished her deeply. Vivien was the heart of the family, bringing everyone together with her warmth and love.

In addition to her family, Vivien leaves behind countless friends who were touched by her friendship and kindness. She valued each relationship deeply and was known for being a loyal and compassionate friend.

Vivien found joy in attending art fairs, traveling to Florida and Malta, shopping and participating in bingo and crafting.Her true joy was found in moments spent with her family, especially her grandkids. She will be fondly remembered for her dependability, nurturing nature and exceptional cooking skills by everyone who knew her.

A celebration of Vivien's life will be held on Thursday, September 19th, at Hackett-Metcalf Funeral Home. There will be a Memorial Gathering for Family and Friends from 3:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. The Memorial Service to celebrate Vivien's life will take place at 6:00 p.m.

Contributions to assist with funeral and medical expenses can be made through a GoFundMe page at https://gofund.me/eca5ac00. Your support during this time is greatly appreciated.

Vivien's favorite color was purple, and we invite you to wear purple at her Celebration of Life or whenever you think of her, as a tribute to the joy and spirit she brought to all who knew her.

She will be missed more than words can express, but her love, kindness, and her memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

Rest in peace, Vivien. You will forever be in our hearts.

Please take a moment to share a memory or a story about Vivien or to leave a condolence for the Calleja Family on Vivien's Tribute Wall.